I have a great client who is looking for a small two bedroom in Harlem for under $350,000 and wants to finance 100% of the purchase price with a VA loan. Now I’ve done over a thousand deals in my 25 years of selling real estate in Manhattan and I’ve never done a VA loan nor have I done 100% financing. This is all new to me.
We found a great place, negotiated a deal, and are trying to satisfy the VA requirements, which are basically FHA approved housing. It is complicated and frankly my client knows more about this topic then the so called ‘experts’ seem to know. We are moving along, but slowly and that is my problem. My client takes forever to get to his point in a conversation and I go way too fast for his liking I am sure. He’s a great guy and we seem to have fallen into an acceptable pattern where I listen longer than I normally would and he graciously allows me to cut him off before he says everything he wants. Clearly, we go through life at different speeds.
One option is for me to slow down to his speed, he is the client. My sister’s ex-husband took forever to get to a point or tell his story and I tried and tried and couldn’t stop myself from interupting him and telling him the end of his story. Ultimately we have rudeness on one hand (me) and boredom on the other (also me). So this is all about me and not the client. I know not interupting others is a good thing, but boy, what a challenge. I’ll give it a go….I think.
Yesterday I was out showing $10,000,000 properties on Fifth Avenue and today I am talking VA loans. I love my job. I might not see the entire spectrum of humanity, but at least I encounter the range of mankind with good credit scores.